How to Attract a Taurus Man: Tips to Catch and Charm Him

How to Attract a Taurus Man: Tips to Catch and Charm Him

How can you make him fall for you completely? If he is born between April 20 and March 20, then you know that he’s a Taurus, and that’s already something! 

Whether you believe in astrology or not, you can try and learn more about his zodiac sign, so your light-hearted flirting with a Taurus man turns into something more serious. 

Understanding the Taurus Man 

To conquer someone, you need to understand them. Here are the key personality traits of a Taurus man:

1. Stability over everything else. Taurus men want security in all areas of their lives, including romantic relationships. 
2. The life of luxury. If you think that you can charm a Taurus man with simple life aesthetics – think again. They like everything fine – food, art, homes, and cars. But don’t be scared, if a Taurus man likes you, he will happily share this glorious life with you. 
3. Trust is paramount if you want to get a Taurus guy. They see it as the foundation of the relationship, and you shouldn’t fail them on that front, or your chances of building a loving relationship with them will be zero.
4. Rushing is not the vibe. Be prepared for your Taurus boyfriend to take his time with anything he does. They know where they’re going in life, and they’re moving in the right direction gradually. They see no point in rushing, and you should see it as a blessing, as you can relax into a comfortable life pace too.

What Taurus men value in relationships:

• Taking the time with relationship milestones. Taurus men want to thoroughly enjoy every stage of their romance and see little value in jumping through to the next step, especially as they want to be sure of their partner.
• Actions speak louder than words. One of the key signs a Taurus man likes you is if he compliments you and gives you verbal affirmations, and if he’s doing all kinds of romantic gestures, big or small. They’re like that themselves and want their lover to match their energy.
• Loyalty is the top priority of a Taurus man. They expect you to be theirs and nobody else’s. It’s generally cute but can become somewhat problematic if they are so focused on it that they become possessive. 
• Physical touch is something that drives this zodiac sign mad. They’re craving hugs, kisses, and everything else. Try to hold their hands and be close to them more often. 

How to Woo and Charm a Taurus Man 

Want to woo a Taurus man? Here are 7 tips to help you do that. 

1. The importance of authenticity and honesty. Authenticity is far too important for them to stay with a partner who’s dishonest. If you can’t help yourself but cheat and act in a way that they’ll frown upon, it might be that you two are not really meant for each other. If you want a long-term and happy relationship, you need to work on your ethics. 
2. Building trust and emotional connection. You’ll gain a lot of trust on their end if you act like an honest person, but it won’t be enough to win them over completely. Embrace openness in your relationship and try to open up to them emotionally step by step. It can be hard, depending on your previous romances, but you’ll both benefit from you trying. 
3. Using your unique charm to captivate him. There is something charming about everyone. The key here is to find what makes you special and emphasize it. Don’t try to be someone you’re not and act like a character you created. Instead, make sure you lean into your authentic cuteness, elegance, and everything else that makes you charming.
4. Be patient – they want a steady relationship, not the one that’s rushed. We get it, sometimes you’re far too crazy about someone to sit calmly and wait. But trust us, this is your winning strategy with this zodiac sign. 
5. Recreate the life of luxury for them. Prepare a delicacy dinner, book a romantic getaway for you two somewhere nice, and take them to a couple’s spa day or to a top-tier music concert. 
6. Reassure them of your reliability and trustworthiness. This is something you’ll need to be doing continuously. Or, hopefully, it will come to you naturally, and you won’t have to try too hard. 
7. Avoid the unnecessary drama. Taurus men don’t live for the drama. The roller coaster of drama and scandal-infused romances is not what drives and inspires them. Quite the opposite, they’ll probably see you as emotionally immature and choose to move on to someone else, if you create an endless drama stream.

Flirting with a Taurus Man: Dos and Don’ts 

Now that we understand this zodiac sign a little better and know ways to charm them, let’s move into a more sensual part of wooing them. Here is how to attract a Taurus man with flirting, and also the absolute don'ts you need to avoid at all times. 

All the best ways to attract a guy who’s Taurus:

• Be genuine because a Taurus man can smell manipulation and ulterior motives from many miles away.
• Compliment him on anything and everything you like about them, but only if you really mean it. Also, be creative with your compliments, they’ll appreciate it. 
• Taurus men are visual creatures who take care of themselves and want their partner to look good and put-together too. 
• Maintain eye contact and make sure to speak in a warm, calm voice. They’re very into soft sensuality, and it’s your go-to trick to make them obsessed with you. 
• Attention to detail. Whether it’s something about them, or what they do for you, noticing and pointing out the little details will get you closer to winning their heart. 

And now let’s cover the things you need to avoid at all costs or you’ll ruin your chance to catch a Taurus man:  

• Aggressive or flashy behavior. Similarly to drama and scandals, an excessive and negative expression is a general turn-off for these guys.  
• Letting yourself go in the sense that you don’t care what you look like and it shows. For example, your clothes are mismatched, your hair could use a visit to a hairdresser, your posture is terrible, and, overall, you look like you don’t care about the way people perceive you. There is beauty in turning away from society’s expectations, but not when it’s extreme. 
• Pushing him to open up to you when he’s not ready. To be fair, many people will be irritated by this, but Taurus guys especially.  
• I will assist you in providing for both of you and taking over the decision-making. Many Taurus men prefer traditional relationship roles. They want to be the protectors of their partners, and taking it away from them will not win you extra points. 
• Meaningless drama and scandals, especially public ones, will make them rethink their relationship with you, and not in a way that you’d enjoy. These guys want a quiet and peaceful life, not a reality TV-stile relationship. 
• Playing mind games is a shortcut to losing a Taurus man. They’re straightforward and honest creatures. The whole manipulation game is not for them at all.  
• Criticizing their choices and preferences. They’re very sensitive, and will react strongly to you belittling them and what they’re interested in or focused on. 

Signs a Taurus Man Likes You 

Let’s talk about the subtle hints a Taurus man gives when he’s interested.

1. He is actively willing to provide for and protect you, and you see them taking care of you again and again, so it’s not just words.
2. Creating a comfortable life for the two of you. They won’t waste their time elevating your lifestyle if they don’t see you two becoming an item for real.  
3. He’s continuously and steadily by your side. None of that disappeared for a few days and came back as if everything was normal a week later. 
4. Holding your hands, kissing, hugging, and showing physical affection in general means that he likes you. 

Signs a Taurus Man Is Sexually Attracted to You 

Taurus men are ruled by Venus. As a result, they’re very in touch with their sensuality and aren’t afraid to show their sexual attraction toward you. Usually, you will be able to tell if they want you sexually or not. If you’re not sure, check the list below and see if it checks out. 

• He always finds ways to be close to you, even if you’re not physically touching each other. Touching their lover is definitely one of Tauruses’ main love languages.
• He’ll make the time for you no matter how busy his schedule is. Taurus men will have the craziest routines ever, but they’ll rearrange them to find a spot for you if they like you and want you. 
• He can’t look away and maintains intense eye contact with you. Or maybe he’s not staring at you non-stop (for example, if you’re in a public setting and he has to talk to other people too), but you’ll notice that he keeps on glancing in your direction. 
• Your comfort and safety become extra important to them. They’ll help you with your chores and tasks, and make sure that you’re the most comfortable with whatever you’re doing. For instance, they’ll order you a cab or upgrade your plane ticket if you’re flying long distance. 
• He’s complimenting you on many things. Taurus men are very attentive. If they like you, they’ll be sure to tell you all the good things about the way you look, carry yourself, and make them feel. This zodiac sign appreciates both internal and external beauty, and they’ll not hold it inside of them. 
• Their flirting is persistent and not as subtle as before. You see a gradual intensification of their flirting, and it’s becoming more transparent and risqué. 
• You’ll see more of their romantic side, such as talking you to cozy dates, giving you sweet little treats, and wanting to create a more intimate setting for whenever you’re seeing each other. 
• His possessive side is shining through. The more a Taurus man wants you, the stronger his desire to control and possess you. They’re almost claiming you like their territory. This can be hot and romantic but don’t miss the red flag if this behavior turns into one. 
• The energy he exudes around you will change. He might be more relaxed and laid back if he’s more comfortable with you, or become more tense and stressed from all the sexual tension he’s feeling at the moment. In any case, it will be different from how you usually feel when you’re by his side. 

Common Mistakes to Avoid with a Taurus Man 

There are things you can do that will jeopardize your chances with a Taurus guy. Here are the main mistakes you can make. 

1. Sending mixed signals. Hot and cold, yes and no behavior from Katy Perry’s song will only annoy them, and not create a sense of mystique as you might have hoped. 
2. Creating drama out of boredom. Taurus men have a lot going on in their lives, and they’re not interested in fighting simply out of boredom. In fact, they consider this sort of behavior very unattractive. 
3. Pressuring him to commit when he’s clearly not ready yet. Some people like to give their partners ultimatums and insist that it works. Not with Taurus guys. 
4. Talking bad about his lifestyle choices. There’s a difference between being concerned and worried and wanting the best for your partner and ridiculing their way of living only because you want something different. If the life he’s building for himself is really that bad, you might want to look for a new lover because Taurus men are not going to change the chosen course. 
5. Calling him materialistic only because he appreciates a good life and wants to live in comfort. There’s no nobility in poverty. 
6. Confronting them aggressively. You shouldn’t police your reactions to his behavior but know that Taurus is a very stubborn sign, and they’ll react much better to a gentle approach and persuasion. 
7. Trying to make him jealous by flirting with others, ignoring his texts, or being vague about your plans. Again, they will tolerate this for a while, but the end will not be a happy one. 
8. Disrespecting his boundaries. If there’s a zodiac sign that is very protective of their personal space and way of life, – it’s Taurus. Push him too hard, and you’ll lose him for good. Also, wouldn’t you want him to respect your boundaries? It’s only fair that he wants the same too, right?  

Conclusion: Winning the Heart of a Taurus Man

If you really like a Taurus man and he likes you back, then your chances of him falling in love are already pretty good. Slow down the pace to make sure you’re both moving at a comfortable speed. Be consistent with the way you talk and act, and how you care about your match. Talk about mutual hobbies and engage in activities you both find interesting, as it will help create a much stronger bond for you too. 

Don’t forget to compliment him and show appreciation in general. He will most likely be showering you with words of affirmation all the time, so return the favor to show him that the feelings are mutual.

Lastly, don’t underestimate the power of flirting and teasing. Don’t overdo it, of course, but let some spicy cheekiness into your daily conversations to keep him just a little bit on the edge.